Akela Chala Tha Mein...

It’s funny how things can change in one decision, one wrong turn and you are lost in a clueless path for the entire journey. It takes all right turns to reach your destination on time and correctly. I don’t know if this is the right turn or not although nothing looks like wrong from here but only time would tell if I along with my life reach to the final destination with happiness and peace until then let me enjoy this new feeling of being occupied with nothing but still feel busy as never before. What am I talking about? well the new season of blooming flowers has arrived, it’s still time to spring but the weather has changed in my life, from status of single eligible bachelor I have upgraded my self to married.
I had never given it much of thought as to what exactly marriage is going to bring in life although relatively new to the veterans in the field but I would take no time to sum up my feelings.

I feel Marriage is a commitment to life, the best that two people can find and bring out in each other. It offers opportunities for sharing and growth that no other relationship can equal. It is a physical and an emotional joining that is promised for a lifetime. It's a weird feeling how just by exchanging few vows and taking pledge two persons get bond forever. The initial thin line of trust and honesty with time nurtures and surely becomes one of the strongest ties for the eternity.

Within the circle of its love, marriage encompasses all of life's most important relationships. A wife and a husband are each other's best friend, confidant, lover, teacher, listener, and critic. And there may come times when one partner is heartbroken or ailing, and the love of the other may resemble the tender caring of a parent or child. It’s feeling of being together, doesn’t really matter if the physical distance is of miles but being in this relationship narrows distance of miles to simple blink of eyes.

Happiness in marriage is not something that just happens. A good marriage must be created. In marriage the little things are the big things. It is having the capacity to forgive and forget. It is giving each other an atmosphere in which each can grow old. It is a common search for the good and the beautiful. It is establishing a relationship in which the independence is equal, dependence is mutual and the obligation is reciprocal. Most importantly: It is not only marrying the right partner; it is being the right partner. From the moment you hold that hand of someone special, you start one journey for lifetime which will show all shades of life. How you traverse in this journey depends not on an individual but on both together. It's not about me anymore it’s about us from here on.

Let’s hope we will reach our destination peacefully and most importantly together. I started my life’s journey alone but now I have found a companion who shall see the path of my present and future together. Let’s see more together.