Dreamz Unlimited

Beauty lies in the eyes of viewer, while some people believe that the inner beauty of someone can only give that last longing fragrance other differs as to them the charm and karisma holds the key to make the first impression as the last impression.

A woman is full of substance: her aura, elegance, panache and perseverance are the metal characteristics of her that holds grace while she stands tall in competing with the tough world around her. It's ironical though this power of self awareness wasn't available for her to assess her credibility and importance earlier. Not just playing a loving mother, a caring wife or a sensible sister but to come out of that nutshell, stereo typed image and prove herself in every field. I feel saddened when I see this world around not just ignoring this super power but also engrossing them by talibanizing their freedom, by vandalizing her intimate escape by trashing her out of pub in Mangalore. The visuals from the Swat Wally and Mangalore would leave you dumb and deaf continues the curse on this species which is a total contrast to the ladies who were walking on the ramp just a day after this dreadful event took place in Pakistan glorifying and proving their charm once again in the miss India pageant. It's so unusual that a split second gives that ever lasting identity to stand as a distinct personality in crowd, really not everyone is entitled to have it but surely they don't deserve the embarrassment and awkward feeling they might go through while Taliban flog them publicly, passing by punks pass comment with a giggle. Handling power is something which is not everyone's cup of tea but no one can deny that our country's top most political influences are none other than elite fleet of women: Sonia Gandhi, Mayawati, Jayalalita, Sheela Dixit to name a few.

We the Asian subcontinent live in a hypocrite society which believes type casting women in a supportive role, we believe that every successful man has a woman behind him but never acknowledge her sacrifice for doing so. Any step up from them is seen as voilation of rules, really contrasting to the western world but just hold a second even the good old Western world is not less behind. We the commonwealth nation still prays for well being of Queen but ironically history is proof of the pathetic condition of women in west as well. While I am in total agreement that a woman has to show their apprehension to a certain extent and in certain situation but that doesn't necessarily mean they need to compromise on their dreams. Dreams are the real motivation in everyone's life, without them life is similar to that waiting room where no train comes. Dreams are not bound to gender but to belief, if that wasn't the case then Kalpana Chwala, Sunita Williams wouldn't have left their home earth to rendezvous with space. I wonder what would have happened to them if they were from Swat Wally where spending just a brisk walk with a stranger promises you flogging publicly. Dreams can only come to existence when one dares to take actions to compliment them, unfortunately still the dreams for these wonderful ladies are tamed and modified to fit into a happy family. Times have changed now for sure and they have their feet on cloud, left their home for the persuit of happiness by fulfilling their childhood dreams, becoming Miss India or IPS officer, may be gracing the most powerful position in world being US president (Like Hillary Clinton did). Dreams are unlimited and they are open to all, it just requires an environment where everyone can inculcate them, we are in 21st century and as growing world we must come to the understanding that just by suppressing dreams you can't overpower someone, if you wish to overpower someone then you must beat them by outperforming in all the fields. Physically challenging someone merely shows the sick attitude of being hypocrite, nothing else.

I don't personally endorse any woman liberalization but I have my respect for them, I always want them to be looked as respected persons, someone who is not just a Cl'ech'e, not just another show piece in showcase. If you can't respect someone then at least please don't disrespect!!