For Her, With Love.....!

I am sure no one can remember their first steps of life but when you leap around the world now this would never come to your mind that when you took your first steps perhaps there was someone looking at you anxiously filled with tears of joy in her eyes. When you speak fluently in front of an audience mesmerizing them it may never occur to you that there was someone listening to your first utterance with the same interest which was not even understandable. When you finish a classy seven course meals in those luxurious dinners it still will not going to occur that there was a time when you used to let your clothes eat more than you ate but still there was someone to look after and ensure that you get right amount of meal even if it meant wasting most of the food.

I am sure you must remember when was the first season of love in your life, when your heart started beating vigorously seeing that someone special and of course when your heart was first broken but you may not recall how many tearful moments went past at home because of you were ignorant. While you were too busy solving personal problems in your friends life being their god father, you were required at home perhaps to give your shoulders to that person who had just lost some old leaves from her family tree. You always wanted to celebrate your first job with a party bash alongside your friends, you always wanted to see the glitter which came on face of person you sent that red rose bouquet but you might always forget to call on these special moments to that person who was anxiously waiting to hear that good news from your side.

After all these ignorance still when you require need of solace, tranquility you know where is that place. A heart so full of emotions for you that it won't think twice to accept your unreasonable demands, a heart which accepts you only for what you are not for what you can be, perhaps it doesn't matter for her, what matters is you. From my youngest years,till this moment here, I have been around the world, met many people but never felt like coming home to a place I've known until I came back to home knowing that someone will be anxiously waiting the same way she did when I first went to my school having tears in my eyes, when I first came back from my collage after my results, when I came back jumping victorious from my game or flooding with tears losing, we together have seen all these good and not so good times, I may have backed out from her bad times due to my unavailability for an excusable reason but she was always available when I needed her in my good or bad times. It was the case from your childhood and it will remain this way forever. This is one love which is unconditional and yes which is never going to question you to prove it all the time. When I address the person who belongs to the other side of this relationship then its none other than the greatest creation god has ever done: Its the "Mother".

As per a famous saying every successful man has a woman behind him but it can't be more true that every person is what he/she is because of a woman, his/her mother.Its ironical though that she is the same person who agrees for staying apart for which as an infant you couldn't bear distance for a minute. In later stages for your own good she accepts forcefully this exile and pain to stay away from you just for your happiness. Her great sacrifice most of the times goes unnoticed when you get involved into your personal and professional life, sometimes accusing her to be old fashioned, an unfit for your life style but she still backs you to the fullest. While you still tops her priority list as early days she gradually moves to low levels in your life but she never complains, silently waiting for her turn to come. Being with her family means the world for her, her world starts and ends with her family.


Although we are in 21st century and now the new age woman is independent making all her decisions on her own to ensure she can standout as an individual identity, she is now even a single mother being a sole provider and protector for her child, the siege within working warrior who is ready to answer all the questions world throw at her but I am sure even now for her being identified as a successful mother means the most, may be there are something which never change.

I don't think there should be any special day like "Mother's day" when you remember her importance in your life because you are a part of this world courtesy her. Your existence is the biggest proof of her unconditional tender and care towards you all these times. Sometimes words aren't enough to show your gratitude towards someone this special in your life. The only way you can pay back is to bring a smile on your face when ever she is around, I am sure she doesn't want anything else from you. I hope this won't be as tough as it may seems.