So Far So Good!

They say the physical distance between two doesn’t matter as long as you have the urge and affection in-between. Although staying thousand of miles away from the loved ones, heart still feels the warmth and pain. When you are so much attached to someone then why do you stay apart, why not stay together and share the same feelings, is it so difficult to stay together and get the same? I would say yes! Having experienced the same from years, I am in complete agreement that it’s the distance that keeps the love and affection alive between. Not being specific to your family or friends but in general. It’s strange though that when you used to be with the people now you pray seeing, you never gave them a glare. To understand this inner most philosophy; we need to introspect the very nature of human.

We human have this uncanny nack of picking the goals on virtue rather than listening to your vices (By vices I mean listening to heart). We consider love is to be earned by your act but always forget to realize that it is something someone deserves. Love and affection are not gifts. If you tell a beautiful woman that she is beautiful what have you done? It’s a fact and she has earned it, it’s not a gift but when you tell an ugly woman that she is beautiful leaving your virtue apart to make her feel gifted, that’s real love. It’s not always the case that everyone should work according the vices, never did I mean that but when it comes to the one you love; one need to keep the virtue outside and have the vices take over (Not always though). This is not so easy in the practical world as day to day when competition is growing across the board; one has to use their virtue to stay ahead in the cat race. Urge to lead the cat race and immerge as the winner to get love and affection from others (As earned gift) makes one forget that he/she has left behind someone waiting and anticipating attention. This is when the distance between hearts starts to build even in the close proximity.

That’s why when you stay thousands of miles away; you let your vices take over on your virtues. This is the bridge that changes the distance in proximity and let everyone feel the affection and love. Sometimes distance does help in reviving the lost happiness in relationship. I am happy that I am far away from my loved ones; at least I am sure that my vices would always let me stay close to them. So Far So Good!!